Having a moment...


There is such a thing as "having a moment"... You know, when you have to let yourself or let other people go through something... Whatever that something is, as it may vary from person to person - it could be the result of a major life change, a hardship, hurt, or it may be something as minor as being in a bad mood on any given day, just because - you may need space, time to veg' it out...time to be alone...time to act out of character, time to be wild and crazy, let them self go, time to sleep through it...time to let things pile up, cry...yell...be silent..

And among ourselves, there will be that understanding individual that just says, "let him or her 'have their moment'"...

From personal experience, I've seen how that "moment" can turn into a lifestyle :-( The moment goes from a few days, to weeks, to months....to years :'( Whether transparently or secretly, we get stuck in the moment...perhaps no one knows, and after a while, those who know, seemingly have run out of the capacity to deal with your moment...they're waiting for your "moment" to pass as they go through "moments" of their own...

My prayer is that we DON'T ALLOW THE MOMENT TO BECOME A LIFESTYLE... It's a journey, and at that, sometimes it's a hard one, but there comes that time where you have to let the moment be what it is...just a moment...journey through it...

And it's never too late... Even if you've been in the same rut for 10 years, accept it as a 10 year moment, and move on to the better moments waiting ahead of you...

When we recognize from a distance, that someone "may" be "having a moment", let them have their moment, but at the same time, pray them through it... Whether your prayers are solicited or not, whether they've leaned on you for strength or not, pray they find the courage, motivation, and power to make it to the victories and blessings waiting for them and those they love dearly on the other side of those moments....

~ Charesse

#DontAllowTheMomentToBecomeALifestyle #BeTheYouGodCreatedYouToBe #LiveTheLifeHeCreatedYouToLive #LoveAndPrayForOthersAlongTheWay #PrayForMe

#MoreLove


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