Misdirected energy...


Misdirected Energy...

I am learning that it is ok to ignore misdirected energy, and for our own sakes, quite necessary in fact. Often times, people will project feelings of anger, wrath, harm, jealousy, envy, unhappiness, sadness and other like feelings, onto us... It can be more of a reflection of how they feel about themselves or how they choose to process things in an unhealthy manner, rather than really having anything to do with us...

Just to be clear, I am aware that there are times where it is warranted...where we have wronged someone, and they are well within their right to feel a certain way, and also, let it be known what they are feeling.. that's actually healthy... And in those instances, it is our responsibility to own what we have done, and do our part to make things right...

But in other cases, where we know we have done nothing wrong...when we know the individuals have every reason to be upset with themselves, and no reason to be upset with us, it is ok to make the decision to not carry that burden with them...

People have a hard time accepting responsibility when they have wronged someone, but believe it or not, they have an even more difficult time processing when they have wronged or hurt themselves!!! So they look for a source for the way they are feeling, and rather than look inside themselves, they look outward, and unfortunately, sometimes they choose YOU! When we entertain them, eventually things that weren’t our problem at all, now become major stumbling blocks for us. We have to accept that when we've done nothing wrong, there is virtually nothing we can do to make things right...the individual must look within, and the choice to do so must also come from within. Our desire for them to understand our perspective will not trump their feelings, so you just have to allow them to come to themselves in time...leave it alone…

PROTECT YOUR PEACE!!! Do not allow someone’s inability to SELF-REFLECT, SELF-INSPECT, SELF-EVALUATE, and, ultimately, SELF-CORRECT become your issue…

~ Charesse

#ProtectYourPeace #DoNotProject #LearnToIgnoreNonIssues

#YouWillSleepSoMuchBetterAtNight

#MORELOVE


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